In His Own Words
About him
Self self selfies - 22nd July 2026 (unrealistic (nothing like me) pics in glam locales doing impossible feats are also available...)
About me:
Romantic in all things (excludes current hair’style’).
I love the magic love thing. The enchanted comfort amid proximity’s spark. The invention and embrace of our lil' linguistic codes and practices. The call backs. The significant gestures within the mundane. The absolute celebration of simply being with. The getting and wanting to be got. The ease. The trust. The openness and authenticity birthed from a place past caring. The caring. The warmth. The selfless surrender to the thing. The yearning and the knowing. The clock telling now as we bubble over.
Youthful, which kinda cuts both ways but I'm taking it.
Optimistic. (Yes, still...)
Pattern spotter
Awake
Health slave
“Good, kind, super lovely”
“There’s no one like you”
"Stop acting the cu.."
Likes stuff
Does stuff
Has too much stuff
Mad about fairness
Fair about madness
All side seeing
Rocky road rambler
Mirth and magic
Dreams and delights
Open mind
Open heart
Open fly
I’ve done enough work - y'know, Eckhart, Mr Dass, the Tao, bit of Tony R, A Watts, Micky Singer, Brucey Lip, Joey Dispenza, yes, that lot - to know I’ve not done enough work.
I like pretty much anything I believe is well constructed. This effectively means I can find (crowbar out) all sorts of stuff in it, whether or not the artist deliberately put it there.
I live on the Mobility Scooter Coast, but regularly glide through the marvellous mediaeval metropolis that is Norwich. And occasionally return to 'the hood', Nottingham.
TL:DR?
Misfit seeks fit Miss
PS. I'm not gonna say I wanna dance with somebody. But I so do.
About his ideal match
Wild saintly socially conservative hedonist supermodel nun who's looking for neither project or convenience, a non-settler looking to settle, a giddy goat who's ultimately informed.
...we never know, not really, what'll make or break the deal, then what'll break the deal that was made. We do our best but widows and widowers aside we wouldn't be here if we knew what boxes to offer for ticking in a perfect list's concise summary of the unlimited breadth of human capability in seven attributes or, yes, fewer.
Someone young of heart, curious, knowing they don't know. And words matter, when you say them, be true. Innocence, despite its reputation, is wisdom, because it always assumes the best, better than best, the perfect. Being deceived doesn't make us dumb any more than deceiving someone makes us smart. When your dog thinks you're about to through that ball, sure, you might've fooled him, or her (dogs are still binary, right?) but that's lesser than actually throwing it, it's below engaging in the game with full heart, conscience and spirit.
I'd like someone like me, and nothing like at all. Someone whose example inspires but ne'er stops her listening, someone beautiful who values principles above practicalities, not always, that'd be daft, not to say impossible, geez, it's 2026, we all need a range of imported exotic foodstuffs dazzling when we enter the supermarket. I miss her already.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Skegness (Chapel St Leonards), Lincolnshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district PE24 (Skegness) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
36 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Melancholy; Philosophical; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Long; Wild; Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Feelings about using Talking Pictures TV Together: |
Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |