In His Own Words
About him
Behind this suave exterior beats the kind heart of a thoroughly dependable guy seeking a free spirit to grow old with gracefully. Or disgracefully as they say.
You’ll find me friendly, considerate, gentle and romantic. Bit of a culture vulture I guess (live music, reading, independent cinema), left leaning and city centre based. Love volunteering. Intelligent on occasions if prone to flashes of rank stupidity. I have no freshly caught large fish to show you.
About his ideal match
Looking for interesting and interested, warm and funny - a bit daft maybe. Miss everyday silliness, intimacy of course, sharing things to do together, places to go. Do hope you enjoy walking and travelling – last year I visited Canada then Reykjavik trailing the Northern Lights...
Please don't go without leaving a message, tell me what makes your world go round.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Norwich, Norfolk, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 5 miles of postcode district NR2 (Norwich) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Dance; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Talking Pictures TV Together: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |